Selfish?

When it comes to the baby girl I feel like a preschooler with a new toy that they don't want to share.  She is mine to play with and hold, but if you are nice to me I might let you look at her.  I struggle with my selfish behavior, I am not going to lie, but I like holding her so much that it is hard to give her up (if you don't believe me just ask the boy, he'll tell you).  I think it's because even though she can be a mess, I truly feel blessed to have her and want to cherish every moment with her.